Gen Z and the Dark Side of Social Media: Scrolling, Show-Offs, and Silent Loneliness

For Gen Z, social media is second nature. It’s where they connect, express, create, and belong. But beneath the surface of Reels, Stories, and viral trends, there’s a growing crisis — one that involves loneliness, silent struggles, and the crushing pressure to always appear “perfect.”
The average Gen Z user scrolls for hours a day, often not realizing how deeply it affects their mindset. Social media has evolved into a stage for one-way performances — where creators and even regular users feel the need to constantly show off a curated, filtered version of their lives. Beautiful vacations, flawless skin, aesthetic routines — everything looks perfect. But it’s not real.
This constant exposure to polished lifestyles creates a toxic loop of comparison. Even when surrounded by followers and engagement, many feel completely alone. It’s the new kind of loneliness: internet loneliness. You’re seen, but not really known. You’re liked, but not truly loved.
In India, this dark side of social media has led to several tragic losses. Siya Kakkar, a 16-year-old TikTok sensation from Delhi, died by suicide in 2020. She had over a million followers but was reportedly struggling silently. Riya Rajput, a young YouTuber and model from Delhi, also took her own life the same year. In Kerala, Vismaya Nair, known for her influencer presence, died by suicide amid online and personal pressures.
Internationally, the stories are just as heartbreaking. Lee Chi Hoon, a popular South Korean YouTuber and streamer, passed away after battling stress, bullying, and mental health issues. Chloe Wilson, a UK-based influencer, ended her life after expressing emotional exhaustion online. Perhaps one of the most high-profile cases was August Ames, a Canadian adult film actress and social media personality who died by suicide in 2017 after facing cyberbullying and harassment.
These tragic stories reveal a painful truth: social media validation can’t replace real emotional connection. Gen Z may be more digitally connected than any generation before, but that doesn’t mean they feel understood.
The solution isn’t to quit the internet — it’s to change how we use it. The solution isn’t to quit the internet — it’s to change how we use it.
That’s exactly what Heyypal is here to do.
Unlike platforms that focus on filters, likes, and followers, Heyypal is an audio-first social network built for real, spontaneous conversations. No pressure to post, no need to perform — just talk, vibe, and connect with people who get you. From voice rooms and interactive games to immersive virtual hangouts, Heyypal replaces passive scrolling with real-time energy and emotional connection.
Because Gen Z doesn’t need more perfection — they need realness.
Join the Heyypal waitlist today and be part of the movement that’s redefining social media for a healthier, happier, more human future.
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